If you’re a new mom, know this: you aren’t imagining the difficulty. There are just too many things on your plate that sometimes, it feels like you’re running a marathon you didn’t sign up for, while carrying a diaper bag. It’s even worse when you’re juggling a career with motherhood.
Recent data from KPMG reveal that 53% of working parents struggle with childcare. According to another study, a staggering 65% of working parents are completely burnt out. Clearly, working and parenting together is no easy thing.
But the truth is that balancing these two parts of your life isn’t about finding a perfect 50/50 split. It’s about finding the rhythm that best works for you. That’s what this article is about.
Read on as we discuss five actionable tips for balancing motherhood and career, without losing your mind in the process.
The pandemic gave working moms one “accidental” gift: the definitive proof that flexible work actually works. It turns out many employers just needed a little nudge, or a global shutdown, to see the light.
Today, remote or hybrid work is one of the strongest tools for motherhood.
This work model makes it easier for moms to stay in the workforce without giving up family time. There’s even research suggesting remote work may help increase birth rates. According to the study, even working from home one day a week can do a lot of good for fertility.
The bottom line? You need some work flexibility.
If your current role feels a bit too rigid, consider a candid conversation with your employer. Ask about:
For best results, frame these requests in terms of productivity. It’s not only about making your life easier but creating an environment where you can deliver your best, too.
This sounds simple. It isn’t. But it might be the most important skill you’ll build as a working new mom trying to manage career and family. Set clear boundaries. Then protect them.
When you don’t draw a line, work spills into family time. Next thing you know, everyone is getting a distracted version of you. Your job. Your baby. Your partner. That’s exhausting for everyone, especially you.
So what can you actually do?
Start small. Make simple, clear rules. If work ends at 5:30, your laptop closes at 5:30. If Sundays are off, your email stays closed. Tell your team. And tell yourself too. Because let’s be honest, you’ll be the first person tempted to break those rules.
Psychology Today found that 71% of working moms carry most of the mental load at home. A big part of that weight may actually be coming from never fully switching off. Boundaries aren’t selfish. They’re survival zones, especially for new moms.
According to the WHO, exclusive breastfeeding is the recommended standard for new babies up to 6 months, and honestly, it’s a good goal. As of 2024, about 48% of infants worldwide met this standard.
The problem? Exclusive may not always be realistic for a new mom who’s struggling, in pain, or trying to get back to work. In situations like these, or if your supply drops, supplementing with formula is totally fine. In fact, many moms live by the phrase “Fed is Best.”
That said, if you supplement with formula, do your homework. The ongoing NEC baby formula lawsuit in the U.S. is a stark reminder of why.
According to TorHoerman Law, there are as many as 770 such cases pending in federal court. These lawsuits claim that certain formulas may increase the risk of necrotizing enterocolitis, or NEC, in premature babies.
This information isn’t to make you panic. It’s so you can stay informed about what goes into your baby’s bottle. That means:
And most importantly, don’t feel guilty if you need to supplement to protect your sanity.
You may have heard the saying, “It takes a village to raise a child.” That saying is totally true. In fact, working moms who build strong support networks simply do better. Not because they’re more organized, but because they’re not trying to do everything alone.
A 2024 peer-reviewed study found that working moms are more likely to leave the workforce entirely because of parenting responsibilities. In fact, according to the study, 24% of women resign within a year of giving birth due to caregiving duties. This is far less likely to happen with a solid support system in place.
So, what can you do to build yours?
And don’t think that because you’re asking your mother-in-law to watch the baby or hiring a nanny, you’ve failed as a mother. Nope. It simply means you’re human.
Self-care is one of the most underrated tools for career moms. But the truth is that you need it. Why? Because burnout is real. A 2025 survey reported in Forbes found that up to 42% of career moms have been diagnosed with anxiety or depression. That’s bad news.
The good news? There are some simple ways to prevent anxiety and depression while juggling a career and motherhood. This includes:
Remember, you cannot pour from an empty cup. You need to have enough to give your best, at work and at home.
As we wrap things up, it’s important to point out that there’s no perfect formula for balancing motherhood and career. Anyone selling you one is lying. What we have are small, deliberate choices you can make every day that add up over time.
Hopefully, this guide has captured some of those choices.
But more than that, remember, you aren’t just a mom and an employee. You’re a human being doing her best.
This blog post is part of ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla.
Photo by Helena Lopes on Unsplash
8 Comments
Great advice Cindy. The “marathon you didn’t sign up for” line… felt that. It’s comforting to read something that doesn’t push perfection but just reminds us to find our own rhythm. Will share this with my sister, who is a new mom juggling her career and kids.
I may not be a mom, but I see working mothers around me doing so much. This post explains that invisible effort really well.
As you said no perfect formula for new mothers .I feel there is no formula for anything! Most suggestions works for some for some we need to tweak to suit our needs
Very well-articulated. The need for self-care is absolutely true. A woman needs to take care of herself, no matter what, and stop apologising for prioritising herself.
Sound advice, Cindy. I know I was extremely lucky to have juggled a fulltime banking career with motherhood, and that is entirely thanks to my mom, who was my biggest support. I don’t think I could have continued to work if she hadn’t agreed to look after my son during the day. I miss her so much, I owe so much to her. Your blog brought back a flood of memories. It is an arduous task managing both, and my mom made it so easy for me. I’m truly blessed.
I like how you focused on small, manageable changes that can make everyday life smoother. Such an encouraging read
Balancing work and motherhood can get tricky if one doesn’t set boundaries at work and not trust or delegate at home. Self care is so underrated, especially for new moms. Liked your practical tips!
I like your advice. You can’t pour from an empty cup! Most moms are so involved with childcare that they neglect themselves. You have given good tips for new moms.